nobody's completely right or wrong. everybody makes mistakes and deserves a chance to correct their wrongs. extremists not encouraged in a democratic nation. it's NOT 1 person's responsibility to carry the problems of all malaysians!!! wake up people! stop complaining and do your part as a civic-conscious and responsible citizen! who's to be blamed than we ourselves?!! PM Pak Lah is NOT a god! not your Allah, his Jesus or whatsoever! he is human just like you and me! he is just more generous than most of us!! who cares to take the burden of the nation for minimal rewards and still countless complaints!! WAKE UP! when you wana complaint about something, think of solutions and JUST DO IT yourself! DON'T EXPECT others to do it for you!
okay enough said. apologies for my ignorance. BALANCE, LOVE and WORTH my friends. the 3 rules i analyzed central to life. think about what we can do to make a difference to our "fatality", be OPTIMISTIC and POSITIVE, SOLVE rather than complaint. look at the GOODS of what others had contributed. NOT the BADS. though reality checks are compulsory.. sighs..
just a question to all, why are educated people so critical of others' mistakes and wrongdoings? didn't we all mortals make mistakes too? do we enjoy being pinpointed what to do and how to do something? didn't we feel not being respected to when others do so? then try to picture ourselves as the people we condemn, and try to understand that even though they are different from us, they have LOGICS too okay?? simply because we can't align with their thinking patterns, should we DISCRIMINATE them?? okay maybe "discriminate" sounds a little too serious for our tiny 'dissatisfactions' with others, but from the point you 'dislike' or think 'badly' (negative) of others, isn't it the roots that caused DIVIDES of all kinds (racial, party, philosophy, religion, policy, nation, etc)and later DISCRIMINATIONS?
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Don`t you think criticism is one of the factor to success? One who can`t take criticism is not qualified to lead..
But i agree with some points of your post, that somebody PANDAI CAKAP only..I believe that they can`t assure to do well when the problem comes to them..!!
So criticism can be sorted into 2 types..the one you should really listen to, which can improve you and another one is just CRABS, which is just to slump you down!! Be wise enough to differentiate them..
Just my 2 cents..:p
lol! you learn fast bro! hehe.
i did mention in earlier posts that we should engage into constructive criticisms which asians are still lacking in.. at least my dad were so used to criticizing me and my brothers with in rather demeaning ways..
luckily i managed to impress him lately that he wasn't always right. i must say that's the 1st thing that reassured me i'm getting more matured. to convince my dad to nod to my words and speechless is a total WOW!! hehe.
he finally admitted that he was wrong to complaint about my little mistakes in every thing i did and not ever expressing that he was proud of me of any thing i did coz he failed to differentiate the fact that i was 1/4 times his age during then and he was comparing his abilities to mine. my dad's IQ is 130 btw. that's definitely quite something. hehe.
and yes you are right. oftentimes we only know how to talk and not know how to act upon our own words. me 2. another culprit. but i am slowly behaving more and more aligned with my words. i believe in making a little difference every single day and acknowledging others' point of views to learn to be better. =)
thxs bro!! =P
btw, 2 cents comments? are you see seong? i learned that from a friend named mike. i didn't notice you use that phrase until now.. hehe. =P
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