Networking Rules!

oh yea had i mentioned the power of networking with the best people in my previous blog post in order to make those miracles?

well i used to think that,
"networking is an artificial way of manipulating others in order to be made used of and expect yourself to be made used of in return. and that there's no honest feelings involved between the parties but hidden agendas and plain professional conducts."

how pathetic..

why? because i used to demand extra attention from my best friends but they failed to all because they have OTHER PRIORITIES in their lives and they refuse to share with me what those PRIORITIES are and WHY. indeed very disappointed because i put in so much in our relationship and friendship and nothing for myself.

now everything changed. there's a limit to expecting and demanding from friends. if there are people who genuinely appreciate you, no matter who you are, those are life-long friends. then again, never fault people for having their secret priorities because they are entitled to them. a lost best friend is a lost best friend, you can always find a new and better one.

but then again, i'll always believe in being genuine and keeping no secrets from the people around you to make a difference. secrets? some people define secrets as some hidden agendas behind their minds they wish not to share with people because of fear of losing their advantage over others. i despise these people esp when people open up to them. as for some others, secrets are things they are uncomfortable sharing with others because they fear insecurity by exposing their tender self to the threats still existing in the world. then i understand and wish to keep their secrets for them too unless i'm pretty sure they are protected from threats if ever their "secrets" got exposed.

i wish this world no longer has to have secrets. i wish human bonds can be further rooted together so we can share everything without fear of being threatened or criticized. i wish everybody is being appreciated by everyone around them since this is the ultimate satisfaction everyone desires from life.

none of these will ever come true unless the world is willing to openly embrace every single difference they encounter. hug the poor, hug the obese, hug the beggars, hug the homosexuals, hug the cancer patients, hug the African blacks, hug the murderers, hug the transvestites, hold their hands and together we build a borderless world! not on the internet but in the real world we all live in! i urge you all to dare dream BIG and make this VISION alive!

my revision to the definition of NETWORKING?

"networking is a way to tell people who you really are, and to try making people happy having you set foot in their lives."

enough said.